If He Really Loved Me…

“If he really loved me, he would _______________.”  This is what we say when we are caught up in our thinking. Yes, we are in pain and yes, we are…

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Until Death Do Us Part

When I married my first husband, I promised to love, honor and respect him.  I promised to stay with him until we were parted by death.  Unfortunately, I did not…

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Hey! What about MY feelings?

This morning as I listened to a couple of  women who called into a local radio station, I felt compelled to write about what I heard.  I’ve changed the names to protect…

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Be Willing to Forgive

Forgiveness begins when we are willing to forgive.  We must want to forgive the person who harmed us. The desire to forgive creates a space where forgiveness is possible.  God…

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Be Perfectly Imperfect

Between Halloween and New Years Day we are bombarded daily by images of holiday settings that include perfectly dressed, smiling people gathered around an elegantly decorated Christmas tree happily sharing…

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Dating Again

When a long-term romantic relationship ends, getting into another relationship is not typically, something we are remotely interested in doing right away.  Depending on how or why the relationship ended,…

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Attack of the Monkey Mind

My Monkey Mind attacked me this morning. I woke up about an hour before my alarm was set to go off.  I lay there with the intention of going back…

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