Turn Off The Thought Bubble Machine

Do you remember when you were a kid, how much fun it was to chase bubbles and pop them?  I would run after the bubbles, laughing and giggling as I…

Is Your Thinking Off Track?

How can you tell if your thinking is off track? Is there a signal that you get that warns you to stop before you do or say something that you…

My Husband Makes Me Feel Invisible

Does your husband or significant other make you feel invisible? Feeling unimportant or insignificant within a marriage, is more common than you might think. I have definitely felt as if…

Political Divide = Relationship Divide?

I generally enjoy reading Facebook posts from my friends and family members.  These are people that I really care about. Social media sites, help me keep up with what is…

Hostile, Critical People, Oh My!

Maybe I am wrong, but it seems that the Coronavirus Pandemic has brought out the worst in some people.  Tolerance appears to be at an all-time low. If you post…

Letting go of the past

Reliving the Past is not helpful Letting go of the past is one of the most loving things you can do for yourself.  When we hold on to past mistakes…

Don’t Give Your Power Away

Last week, I placed a drink order at a fast food restaurant drive-through.  When I got up to the window to pay for my order, a woman in her late…

Where Are You On The Ladder of Selves?

The “ladder of selves” was a concept of British philosopher, Colin Wilson.  It is an excellent metaphor for how our mood effects our relationships with others and how we experience…

Tragedy Does Not Define Us

I sat down at my computer this afternoon to write an article for my Blog. I knew this date was approaching, but it didn’t fully hit me, until I looked…