The Divorce Was Not My Fault
I was married to a man who was physically abusive and refused to control his temper. On top of that, he drank too much, cheated on me and loved to…
Divorce is NOT the End of Your Story
Divorce is one of the most painful life events that a person can experience. It is as if a rug was pulled out from under you and your world is…
Your Thoughts Are A Paintbrush
Thoughts are like a paintbrush. The artist uses a paintbrush to create his or her version of what is seen with the eye. This is exactly how thought works. We…
What Can You Do If You Are In An Abusive Relationship?
Does your spouse treat you with indifference or worse? Do you feel invisible? Have you been asking yourself whether you should stay or go? Do you wonder if you have…
When Will Enough be Enough?
Are you unhappy in your marriage? Are you waiting for your spouse to change from being uncaring, inattentive, undemonstrative and angry into someone who is attentive, loving, affectionate and peaceful?…
Boundary Crashers and Bullies
There are many different levels and types of abuse. Any relationship, personal or otherwise is susceptible to it. Sometimes, abuse is easily recognized, other times, it is more subtle. Abuse…
If He Really Loved Me…
“If he really loved me, he would _______________.” This is what we say when we are caught up in our thinking. Yes, we are in pain and yes, we are…
Until Death Do Us Part
When I married my first husband, I promised to love, honor and respect him. I promised to stay with him until we were parted by death. Unfortunately, I did not…
Are You Sacrificing Your SELF for Your Relationship?
One-Sided Relationships Some of my past relationships have been very one-sided. Looking back, I know it was because, in each one of those relationships, I chose very selfish, immature men…