If He Really Loved Me…
“If he really loved me, he would _______________.” This is what we say when we are caught up in our thinking. Yes, we are in pain and yes, we are…
Read MorePainful Memories Belong In The Past
A few days ago, I received a letter from an attorney’s office. The letter informed me that I owed $3,000 to a Property Owner’s Association for assessment fees on a…
Read MoreUntil Death Do Us Part
When I married my first husband, I promised to love, honor and respect him. I promised to stay with him until we were parted by death. Unfortunately, I did not…
Read MoreHey! What about MY feelings?
This morning as I listened to a couple of women who called into a local radio station, I felt compelled to write about what I heard. I’ve changed the names to protect…
Read MoreBe Willing to Forgive
Forgiveness begins when we are willing to forgive. We must want to forgive the person who harmed us. The desire to forgive creates a space where forgiveness is possible. God…
Read MoreThe Seahawks’ Super Bowl Victory 2014
I’m not going to pretend to know much about football. However, I feel pretty confident that Sunday night’s Super Bowl upset of the Denver Broncos by the Seattle Seahawks…
Read MoreVictim or Self-Reliant Individual?
Everyone has a tendency to feel sorry for herself from time to time. Sometimes, we think it would be so much easier if someone would just step in and take…
Read MoreBe Perfectly Imperfect
Between Halloween and New Years Day we are bombarded daily by images of holiday settings that include perfectly dressed, smiling people gathered around an elegantly decorated Christmas tree happily sharing…
Read MoreAre You Sacrificing Your SELF for Your Relationship?
One-Sided Relationships Some of my past relationships have been very one-sided. Looking back, I know it was because, in each one of those relationships, I chose very selfish, immature men…
Read MoreDating Again
When a long-term romantic relationship ends, getting into another relationship is not typically, something we are remotely interested in doing right away. Depending on how or why the relationship ended,…
Read MoreAttack of the Monkey Mind
My Monkey Mind attacked me this morning. I woke up about an hour before my alarm was set to go off. I lay there with the intention of going back…
Read MoreWe Can’t Change The Past Most people have something in their past that they wish they could change. Is there something in their life that you wish you had done…
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