Where Are You On The Ladder of Selves?

The “ladder of selves” was a concept of British philosopher, Colin Wilson.  It is an excellent metaphor for how our mood effects our relationships with others and how we experience…

When is Enough, Enough?

I wish there was an easy, multiple choice test a person could take to determine if it is time to leave a relationship, change jobs, close a business, walk away…

Victim or Self-Reliant Individual?

Everyone has a tendency to feel sorry for herself from time to time.  Sometimes, we think it would be so much easier if someone would just step in and take…

Are You the Architect of Your Own Life?

  What is an architect? According to Wikipedia an architect is a person trained in the planning, design and oversight of the construction of buildings.   The word is derived from the…